Writer's Block: Places to Lay Your Head

  • May. 29th, 2009 at 9:39 AM
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How many different places (cities, houses, apartments, dorm rooms, etc.) have you lived in? Which is your favorite? And your least favorite?


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I've counted up 22 places so far... (2 in Alabama, 1 in New York, 1 in Florida, 1 in Mississippi, 5 in Virginia, 12 in Texas).  There could be more -- I moved around a lot in the 80s.

Favorite?  My current home.  Being in the right place with the right person makes this the best place I've ever lived.

Least Favorite?   A place I rented after college (at 210 Feazell Street, Nacogdoches, TX).   I lovingly refer to that period of my life as "when I lived in the hellhole with the Earth Girl."   The landlord was so cheap, he refused to repair ancient appliances, broken windows, a broken heater and a leaky heater, and a non-working stove.  (At least the broken window was close enough to the leaky heater that we thought we could safely use it and the gas that leaked out would safely get blown out the window in the winter time.)   My roommate was a "naturalist" who believed that bathing and shaving were activities we should avoid.  (but apparently chain smoking and burning holes in her roommate's sofa were perfectly acceptable activities.)


thought for the day

  • May. 29th, 2009 at 8:53 AM
diet
Bacon dental floss was bad enough -- do we really need bacon lip balm and bacon breath mints?

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highway humor

  • May. 27th, 2009 at 8:40 AM
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Sign on one of the bridges on I-10 in Louisiana: 
Bridge may be ice in cold weather.   (which would be an interesting transformation to behold)
not so hot anymore
 
A billboard blitz alongside I-10 (I think they were just inside Mississippi), promoting a dozen or so upcoming performers at the Beau Rivage:
Somewhere in the middle these three were in a row:  Johnny Mathis, Engelbert Humperdinck, Michael Bolton.  Each billboard had a giant face shot, and the photo of Michael Bolton was so unflattering, it made him look older than Johnny and Englebert (even though they are 20 years older). 
Made me sad to think that I crushed on him for a while back in college.  Mind you... he's holding up better than some of my earlier crushes (Exhibit A: Leif).
 

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news and pics from my kitchen garden

  • May. 26th, 2009 at 1:53 PM
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This year, I attempted something new -- growing my own vegetables.  Thanks to an aerogarden that I bought over a year ago, I began to have modest success growing herbs.... so I figured what the heck.  [info]thebigo built me a 4'x8' bed and helped me fill it.  Thank goodness he's sturdy -- it took a thousand pounds of soil and compost to fill the bed.    I started some of the seeds off in my aerogarden and then moved them to the planting bed.  Add lots of water and sunshine...

And this week we harvested the first of our summer squash.  We picked and ate a few baby squash before going out of town for the weekend, and picked several more (including an 18" giant zucchini) when we returned on Monday.  I looked today, and we have plenty more coming in.   I'm so excited. 

Here are photos and details for those of you who actually find this sort of thing interesting.



tired of airports

  • May. 14th, 2009 at 3:50 PM
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Between Seattle and San Francisco International last week, and Dulles and O'Hare this week... I'm growing weary of airports.
And I'm quickly realizing how fast I can go through an entire day's per diem when my flights get delayed.  **sigh**

Should be home in a couple hours.  Hopefully this time I can stay there for a while.

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Follow Up to my Performance Review post

  • May. 11th, 2009 at 9:36 AM
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Ok, this is a follow up to my post about my refusal to sign my performance review...

This morning my director announced that HR had made some change that would allow him to correct the incorrect gender references in my review.  Of course, so far he hasn't been able to get their directions to work --- but supposedly it'll be corrected soon.

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Stamp Out Hunger Drive

  • May. 10th, 2009 at 10:05 AM
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Yesterday we were with the San Antonio Parrot Heads for our quarterly volunteer time at the San Antonio Food Bank.   In three hours the team of volunteers portioned out over 10,000 pounds of pinto beans and rice.  We were fairly tired by the end of the three hours, but we all felt good about the work we did.   The San Antonio Food bank serves 16 counties in South Texas -- for the area that they serve, the overall poverty rate is 16.5% and the child poverty rate is 25%.  That makes for a lot of hungry people that wouldn't have enough to eat if it weren't for our food bank. 

I urge you to volunteer your time or donate food and/or money to a food bank near you.  If you don't know where the nearest one is, the  Feeding America website has a handy lookup tool located here: http://feedingamerica.org/foodbank-results.aspx.  I'm not sure about the statistics in other states, but in SA, even a small donation can make a huge difference. 



Am I being unreasonable?

  • May. 8th, 2009 at 2:54 PM
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The situation:
I'm apparently the only person in my division who hasn't signed their annual employee review from last year, and I'm getting pressured to sign it.  Our evaluations are all done electronically, and they are all waiting for me to click a button in the performance review tool.

The problem:
When my director added in his review of my performance, he copied and pasted from one of my peer's reviews, so in several places in my evaluation, there are phrases like "his work" and "his function."   Since I'm the only female that reports to my director, he didn't think to modify the "his" to "hers".  I have explained several times that I will sign as soon as those sections are updated.  He phoned one more time today asking if I could *please* just go ahead and sign it, and I once again replied that I prefer to have my gender correct in my evaluation.  He sighs loudly, which I interpret as "why do women have to be so difficult?" and states that he'll try to get assistance from someone in HR. 

The kicker is that whoever programmed the system didn't build the review tool in such a way that allows directors to go back into the tool and correct their "typos" once the review moves up the chain.  So, once my director signed it, and then his boss signed it (without apparently noticing the gender errors), neither of them can make any edits (so they say).

I'm normally quite willing to be "one of the guys" when it comes to most issues at work.  But I've been with the company for 12 years, working my way up the chain, and have been in the same management position for several years.  I feel as though I'm due this level of respect.

So, give me your honest opinion:

  1. Am I being unreasonable? Should I do as my boss asks, and just sign the evaluation?  
  2. Men, if you were in a similar situation, would you sign an evaluation that referred to you as a woman? 


An Ocean view in San Antonio?

  • May. 7th, 2009 at 9:06 PM
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I was on Marriott's website, and noticed that they have a new Courtyard hotel coming to the San Antonio Riverwalk.  It opens in June of this year.  I only hope that by the time they open, they update their photo tour and replace the "artist's renditions" of the hotel with live photos, since the "Artist" has apparently decided that San Antonio is next to the ocean.  (Which would be swell if it were true... )
Riverwalk Location
Perhaps the artist was making sure the hotel was tall enough to survive if the Riverwalk flooded?  I dunno.



cask-conditioned goodness

  • May. 3rd, 2009 at 11:01 AM
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Went to Redhook brewery in Woodinville last night.  Tasted their Sunrye (a little light for my tastes, but would be ok for a hot summer day), a  Raspberry Triple (unpleasant with a funky aftertaste... the one sample I wish I hadn't tried), the Longhammer IPA (solid performer) and their cask-conditioned Longhammer IPA (fabulous!!  Better than St. Arnold's cask-conditioned Elissa, on par with cask-conditioned Tupper's Hop Pocket -- which remains my gold medal standard).

The food was alright -- but the cask-conditioned IPA made the trip to the brewery worthwhile.  If you're a hop head or a fan of cask conditioned ales, I highly recommend it.

Today I'm off to hit a couple wineries, before heading into the city to see Tower of Power at Jazz Alley.  So far Seattle hsa been confusingly sunny.  I thought it always rained here.  Oh well, I'm sure I'll see rain before I heade back home.


An Event Apart

  • May. 1st, 2009 at 8:44 PM
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So looking forward to the conference... and Seattle... and Tower of Power...
The next couple days should be a blast!!

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the joys of bacon

  • Apr. 28th, 2009 at 9:46 PM
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From the "It's about time" brain trust -- Bacon Floss!
(Special thanks to Angie from Copa Wine Bar for sending me the bacony-goodness link!  She understands my addition.)

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Fear mongering

  • Apr. 28th, 2009 at 8:14 AM
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A new PETA billboard coming to San Antonio cites swine flu and other animal-borne illnesses (like mad cow disease) as a reason to "go vegetarian" because "Meat Kills."  [source]

And I'm sure we'd all be much healthier if we consumed spinach, lettuce, sprouts, tomatoes, bamboo shoots, jalapenos, pistachios, cheese, avocados, yogurt, honey and peanuts (all of which have had recent recalls).  Honestly, in the last year or so, we've seen issues with everything from mouthwash to spice blends... 

There are plenty of positive reasons to go vegetarian, but FEAR should not be one of them.

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Although overshadowed by swine flu concerns, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) issued a warning yesterday that another raw alfalfa sprouts salmonella contamination was indeed detected. Consumers are urged to cease consumption of raw alfalfa sprouts, as well as any products that contain them.

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Not sure if our local news ever gets reported outside of our area, but there have been confirmed cases of swine flu in San Antonio. Here are the details on the bigger new stories related to the swine flu:So... We are going to try to avoid public places.   Unfortunately, yesterday was the final day of Fiesta -- so for the last eleven days, there have been 3.5 million people attending over 100 events around our city (carnivals, concerts, parades, festivals, fund-raisers, exhibits, block parties, athletic events, banquets, and so on) all of which were places where a mysterious flu could easily spread. 

I'm hoping the outbreak stays limited, but it has already reached 5 states in the US


King Williams Fair

  • Apr. 25th, 2009 at 11:10 AM
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As Fiesta is coming to a close, we're headed off for one more event -- this time it's the King Williams Fair.  Rennie friends will find it amusing that the first 3 times I tried to spell the festival name, I spelled it 'faire' instead of 'fair.'
It's kinda like a renn faire though -- except no one is dresses in garb and the music runs the gamut of Chicano Garage Rock to Tex-Mex Irish Klezmer bands, and everything in between. 
The event is a fundraiser to support the city's oldest district -- I'm hoping it's as much fun as a renn faire!!




Taste of the Northside!

  • Apr. 22nd, 2009 at 5:12 PM
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Tonight we're headed off to attend the only Fiesta event on the Northside of San Antonio (fortunately it's very close to home).  I love to party for a good cause!!  


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  1. I am NOT a Grammar Nazi.  I admit to making frequent mistakes in my own writing.
  2. When reading casually written content (blogs, e-mails, or other user-generated content), I try to maintain a holistic approach.  I will overlook linguistic shortcomings and attempt to focus on the thoughts being expressed.
  3. Sometimes the shortcomings are so severe, I wonder if Americans are losing the ability to command the English language.
Today's e-mail masterpiece:

we have  the loan house with you,  but we have a question,, we need to know whith whish bank do u work,couse we want to change  of bank,and we want to know if we cualifive  for the goberment program,we want to refinantial our house so please  soon u can pls thank you 

Do people spend so much time text-messaging and tweeting that they've forgotten how to spell, punctuate, or complete a coherent thought?



A sad day for D&D fans

  • Apr. 10th, 2009 at 11:52 AM
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R.I.P. Dungeons & Dragons Co-Creator Dave Arneson, 1947-2009
The co-creator of Dungeons & Dragons, Dave Arneson, died in his sleep last night, at the age of 61.

If you're not a fan of the Order of the Stick, today's comic was a nice tribute:
http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0644.html

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Photo from the Pirate Ball

  • Apr. 9th, 2009 at 1:52 PM
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Managed to post a photo of us from this past weekend. 
Here we are, in our pirate finery.




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